Posted by Eddie Sylvano on October 11, 2002, at 9:47:45
In reply to Lover cheating online? Catch them in the act., posted by Gracie2 on October 11, 2002, at 1:51:04
>If he's reading this now, I want him to know that I love him and I would do anything to be close to him again.
> I love you, Ken.
----------------------Awww. That is so sweet. It seems like it is so rare that people openly acknowledge their afections. I've found that it's genuinely rare to encounter someone that will say such things to you, especially in the long term, and mean it. Ken's a fortunate guy.
I don't know what it is about long term relationships that result in such estrangement, but it's not uncommon. After being married to my ex for 6 years, it's almost hard to think of them objectively, as real people, because your experience of them is so intimate and constant. Given the right circumstances, it's not hard to lose appreciation for the other person. The only thing that can usually undo that is seperation, though by that time, things are too late. If people could only take the time to honestly evaluate the good things about their partners while they're still together, instead of taking them for granted and then looking for novelty.
Anyway, I wouldn't worry too much about his online thing. All you can really do is love your partner and let them choose their own paths.
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