Posted by ~~tabitha~~ on September 2, 2002, at 2:12:01
In reply to Re: Going hypo? » ~~tabitha~~, posted by Ted on September 1, 2002, at 21:38:40
Whoa, it was getting really warm in here, until...
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> Fun too until it gets too complicated (unfortunately it only takes about 1 or 2 days with a woman before romance gets "too complicated").Sigh. Isn't that the sad part? After 1 or 2 days of, um, dalliance, I'd be completely hooked and you'd be out of there. I really believe sex makes women fall in love, and for men, it just, well, doesn't. It's just kind of like a good meal for them, it fills them up and they move on to the next activity.
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> Nothing is sexier than a woman who likes being sexy. However, don't forget Lauren Bacall: "A man is more interested in a woman who is interested in him than he is in a woman, any woman, with great legs." Since you sound hungry for attention, you sound like you will be interested in me, so this issue is also solved. :-)Yeah, there's something to be said for putting out vibes. I've got myself convinced, though, that most guys pursue the gorgeous babes who show little interest, and ignore the less gorgeous women who actually want them. (Not that I'm not gorgeous, of course.)
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> >When I was an AOL newbie
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> Oxymoron. One needn't be redundant.Hey be nice. I'm still on AOL. If you ask nicely I might tell you my screen name.
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> This is California. Lots of women like anonymous quickies. You just have to accept yourself and your desires. Nothing wrong with that -- it's sexy in fact.My married guy friend told me this same thing. I guess I need to hear it from a woman to believe it. I just think even if women do indulge in anonymous quickies, it's with the fantasy that it's actually the start of some great passion. Then when the guy doesn't call, they feel like s***.
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> > I always need some kind of nonsexual entanglement first, to build up energy.
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> So what is this? Church service?Point taken. You probably don't want to hear this, but... this make me think. It's the painful entanglements that I try to sexualize, not like here where I"m actually having fun and feeling pretty much free to be myself. Isn't that sad? I need to get re-wired so I can actually get some real gratification, you know, being singularly cherished and accepted and loved and all that, plus sex.
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> > I don't actually have much of a sex drive, in terms of just looking at a guy and wanting to jump his bones. Well, almost never.
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> WHAT? You wait until NOW to say this? Geez. Now that just ruins everything. ;-)Sorry dear. The meds and all. Actually I"ve always been this way. Hypomania aside, I only feel a real physical desire about 2 days in my monthly cycle. Are you starting to get why I"m single?
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> >so keep flirting, our day may come yet...
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> How's this? :-)Pretty darn good, Ted, you big hunk of married 40 yr old mood-cyclin' silicon valley fruit-lovin' techie geek, er, I mean high-powered software executive.
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