Posted by Shar on March 12, 2002, at 14:11:02
In reply to update, posted by KB on March 11, 2002, at 12:58:17
KB,
That is a very nice response. Something one could write to a good friend. It does not strike me as an indication that he wants an intimate future with you. He's not saying he wants to be with you more, to have plans together for future times, etc. He is saying, I wasn't a good friend to you and you deserve better, he feels close to you, and wants to talk to see if there is a 'happy medium.'Is that what you had hoped for? I think it's true that at some point in a relationship one can be identified as "in" or "out" or "on the fence" and I'd think at best he is on the fence, at least as far as an intimate relationship is concerned.
Are y'all sexually active this time around?
I would watch what this guy DOES. Will he contact you so y'all can talk about it? Will he arrange to visit? Does he send another email expanding on his comments? Or does he go back to relative silence?
Is any of this what you want in an intimate relationship?
This sounds so familiar to me. What state does this guy live in?
8-)
Good luck. I hope he comes through. If he doesn't DO something fairly soon, I wouldn't hold out tons of hope for anything but friendship.
Shar
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