Posted by Phil on December 15, 2001, at 22:49:48
In reply to Phil, you (well intentioned) Phool, posted by Greg A. on December 15, 2001, at 22:09:25
> Taking lot's of other things Phil. I am indeed, my own worst enemy. But I know myself pretty well so sometimes I put up a good fight.
> >It's not like I don't know the terrain you're in. I know it too well.
>
> > > >Once you have crossed that boundary, by the way, have you met her? Some people don't understand with good reason.
> > Deep sharing early in a relationship is not a sign of healthy boundaries. It is usually a sign that a train wreck is going to happen down the line. Believe me, I've been in a lot of train wrecks.
> >
> > Sorry to be so blunt.
>
I just hate that I may have f#*ked up a friendship by saying the wrong thing. That would certainly not be a first for me, but you'd think I'd learn.> >I just did that recently to someone I knew for 8 years. Said the wrong thing. I hate it when that happens. I have wonderful self talk afterwards."You moron! Dumb ass. Stupid f@cker."
>
> No offence taken for the bluntness Phil. None intended in the subject line.I thought the subject line was phine.
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