Posted by Greg A. on November 26, 2001, at 13:04:23
In reply to vino and madness (a soberly written thread), posted by sar on November 26, 2001, at 10:39:40
sar,
I am offering this as my well intentioned, but semi-worthless opinion. I have no wish to judge your life, 'cause I find mine tough enough to live with and reconcile at times.
Now that we're done with the disclaimer . . .sar - you are far to intelligent to be picking fights with a mean nothing neighbour that you happen to have slept with. You knew what his intentions likely were. What better set up for a fight than going over there and ignoring him - and I don't mean ignoring him in the sense of not hopping into bed; I mean not saying what you want to do or don't want to do. Better yet, if he means nothing to you, then don't go.
Ever hear that men use love to get sex while women use sex to get love. I can see him fitting the picture. What about you?
Apologies if I lectured here, but sar, I have trouble putting the two yous I see on this board together: the one who writes such eloquent and caring advice to people in trouble and the one who does not seem to care about herself. There. I'm done psycho analyzing.Greg
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