Posted by fleeting flutterby on December 31, 2008, at 18:13:59
In reply to Re: Gray Rape, posted by fleeting flutterby on December 31, 2008, at 17:56:20
I apologize if I seemed a bit rough in my above post..... it's just......
I think that using the word "rape" when there isn't violence involved, when it's not about overpowering another, is making the very act of rape less understandable. too much ambiguity and no one will understand what is and what is not rape. (touchy subject for me)
I wish your therapist would have said it's a "sexual insensitivity" problem on your husband's part.... or "insensitive selfishness"
this just bothers me.... not about you-- but about your therapist and the word choice. but-- maybe it's just me and I really don't understand your whole situation. maybe there are more details that I just don't know............
anyway-- I do feel for you in your struggles. ... I'll keep quiet now....*blushing*....
please, take care
flutterby-mandy
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