Posted by ClearSkies on November 15, 2007, at 15:39:53
In reply to Getting over a crappy relationship- need advice, posted by Jimmyboy on November 14, 2007, at 18:12:07
I think that in leaving a bad relationship behind, it's inevitable to have feelings of regret and to even want to have another chance at making repairs. Maybe this time we can be more resilient, maybe this time they will be different, maybe we both have learned our lessons, etc.
I think that part of this is romancing our past, though you certainly make it sound like something you wouldn't want to repeat. So what would make a return to this relationship different for you? What element has changed so that you would be happier with her? Perhaps ask yourself these questions and you'll see what it is you're being drawn to.
ClearSkies
(nice to meet you, BTW!)
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