Posted by muffled on December 29, 2006, at 23:02:59 [reposted on January 1, 2007, at 21:50:11 | original URL]
In reply to Re: Time for a *sex trigger** thread. Hubby/wife stuff » muffled, posted by annierose on December 29, 2006, at 21:38:51
> I second what Daisy said to you. I just wanted to say, of course your therapist will understand. Sexual issues are commonplace - and she is trained to help untangle those feelings.
**Sigh...She been a T awhile, I suppose 'that' stuff has come up before with others.
Just right now i struggling with the fear that she gonna look at me different when she gets back.
Cuz I think I may have said some bout the unspeakable, or what little I know bout it, and now I SO scared she gonna look at me funny :( I seldom actually look at her anyways, so mebbe it don't matter...
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> I do talk with my therapist regarding sex, and it's never easy, even after all these years. I still haven't untangled my web of difficulties, it's something I still have to talk about time and time again. But I think it's worth it. And I think your husband is more understanding than you probably realize. Have you talked to him about your feelings?**So your T HAS helped?
I think my husband is understanding, but he himself had self esteem issues growing up. He had a crazy kidhood. I just don't want him to misunderstand that I think HE is repulsive, and its not him.
I also just not very good at intimacy stuff. I don't like to talk bout myself which is why T is so hard for me.
This all is such a drag.
Thanks for your words and understanding.
Take care,
Muffled
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