Posted by Dinah on December 9, 2013, at 13:27:54
In reply to Grief, how long does it take?, posted by sleepygirl2 on December 5, 2013, at 22:34:43
I think it is harder when it's a problematic, complicated relationship.
Don't forget to grieve the relationship that might have been, or that should have been. Don't forget that it's ok to not feel positive feelings towards the deceased.
Although I still dream that Daddy is alive, and I'm trying to figure out what to tell everyone who attended his funeral. We had a good enough relationship. This year will be nine years, and I still sometimes want to pick up the phone and share something with him that I can't share with anyone else.
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