Posted by wjamesfan on December 23, 2012, at 11:21:16
In reply to Attachment to therapist, posted by mmealltalk on December 9, 2012, at 11:26:13
Hi, I'm new here but have followed lots of peoples' stories for many years. I felt moved by your post and had to reply. I just want to say that I think it's wonderful that your therapist of 21 years is still talking to you four times every month! I know it's not at all the same as three times per week...but isn't it amazing that she cares so much for you that she continues to see and skype with you despite the distance? That must show that she really cares and understands attachment. I've seen how awful it is when therapists really abandon their patients and I'm so glad when I see examples like yours...where the relationship changes, but the people involved manage to remain connected. So, I guess, in a lot of ways, your long, stable relationship is really inspiring to me...even if it's hurting a bit right now. Maybe getting a secondary therapist would help to fill the void. But, for now, please do treasure the loyalty and longevity of your therapeutic relationship...I hope you are able to stay connected to her for another 21 years:-)
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