Posted by Deneb on April 24, 2011, at 18:21:40
In reply to Re: Pdoc reduced my sessions :-( » Deneb, posted by annierose on April 20, 2011, at 21:49:03
> Of course no one could replace her. And you don't need to replace her ... you still get to see her. She is still a part of your life. And I bet you probably didn't feel this way after the first session. Your love grew the more you worked with her.
Yeah, I was very difficult to work with at the beginning, but then I grew attached to her after all these years.
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> People are not replacable. Perhaps while you still get to talk with your p-doc you could try again talking to others ... and I think you have to be open to the idea and let them in. If you walk in comparing them to her, that wouldn't be fair to either of you. I have seen other therapists before/after seeing the current one. And although they were not my "favorite" I did learn something valuable from each of them, something special, something that keeps them in my heart as well.
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> Have you ever asked your p-doc for a referral ... someone that she thinks would be great for you ... someone that she hand-picked.I think pdoc thinks that I`m ready to set out there on my own without a T every week. I really have improved a lot. I don`t really think I need a T. It`s just nice to have someone to walk to once in a while.
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