Posted by Dinah on May 21, 2009, at 22:23:00
In reply to Re: A ramble » Dinah, posted by Phillipa on May 21, 2009, at 21:28:14
It's a hard one to figure out.
On the one hand, I'd really rather not tell him that I noticed anything near his crotch.
On the other hand, when you try not to look at someone's crotch, it's all you can see.
On the one hand, I'm sure he would like to know so he could fix it or sit with his legs closed.
On the other hand, if he went to the bathroom and discovered it himself, he need never know that I noticed it. This would be what I'd prefer for myself.
And of course on the other other other hand, I doubt he thought about it once he stapled his pants together, or whatever he did. While I'm still worrying about what I'd do if it happens again. Which it never has in fourteen years so likely will never happen again.
It'd be silly of me to start getting social anxiety about something that isn't likely to happen again.
(I think I might possibly have giggled in my nervousness. I can't bear to think I giggled.)
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