Posted by Amelia_in_StPaul on May 19, 2009, at 11:17:23
In reply to If T hurt you, would you go back?, posted by Birdsong on May 19, 2009, at 9:16:06
Please don't take it personally with your T. A lot of T's don't really reach out when their clients miss an appointment, or even several (they just assume the person isn't coming back). You said it's not been the right fit (or you aren't sure it has been) and so maybe that's the real thing to focus on. I believe in closure, though, so I would go back just to express your feelings and let him/her know that you're going to find someone else. Try to do that when you are in a good space and can articulate what you think went wrong, or how you are not a good fit. In the meantime, find someone else asap. You are hurting, and need to find support. Good luck~Amelia
> First, thank you all for your kind responses.
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> I was with T for 7 months and it has been difficult. I don't know if we are the right "fit" but I am in so much pain. T did not make any attempt to contact me although I have missed 3 sessions. I am getting so depressed and I don't know why. T does not want me as a client.
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> If you were me, would you call T? Or just recognize that you have been rejected again and try and move on?
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