Posted by Amelia_in_StPaul on May 15, 2009, at 19:13:53
In reply to Re: Stupid Me!!!!, posted by Phillipa on May 3, 2009, at 23:58:09
Phillipa, are you okay? Sounds like you are having a really rough time. I'm so sorry. Are you saying that your husband would get ALL your money if you divorced--would it not be split? Gosh, it's tough to be in a relationship that hurts. You know, it's a human tendency to try to find patterns in things, but I think that, from what your describing, it would be very hard not to blame your spouse for the stress you have. It sounds like you are not in a validating environment.
Are things any better than since you last posted? Are you doing okay? You deserve happiness.
> Well looked them up the laws and studid me have no rights at all. Even all the money I had when got married he gets even though he made poor investments. And now can't clean shower floor. It's wet on the floor of shower so that's a no no too. I think I quit. Phillipa
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