Posted by DAisym on December 15, 2008, at 1:51:58
In reply to Re: Confusion...as usual *triggery**, posted by muffled on December 15, 2008, at 0:23:40
No one knows the reason they are really here. Maybe one of our kids will cure cancer, or be president or travel to mars. Or maybe our words, here in cyber-space will touch just one other person and let them know they aren't alone. Trust your gut and have faith that you don't walk alone on your path.
As far as friends go, so often their own pain drives them away and nothing we can do or say will change their reality. They see us like they see us. We must know when to let go - to wish them well on their journey but cease to try to communicate. It is hard I know, as we always want to explain, or change or convince them that they have it wrong - that they have us wrong. So many times I've see folks get angry and then rewrite the history of a relationship. It is suddenly all, or mostly, bad. Nothing you can do except bow out.
It is confusing. And hurtful. 'Tis the season though - so take comfort where you can and walk away from the rest.
Hugs,
Daisy
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