Posted by rskontos on April 21, 2008, at 22:11:25
In reply to Re: I think I am pretending in T.....(triggersposs, posted by Happyflower on April 21, 2008, at 19:10:42
Yeah, I Happyflower I don't feel bonded and that is probably what is stopping me at the moment not the other way around and I am trying to just stop here and pretending I am ok so that I can't stop the frequency of therapy because I can't fathom going further. I don't really see myself seeing him as anything more. I can't go to the transference issues with him. I know i have trust and safety issues. I admit that. I have told him things I haven't told anyone else I will admit that but to go further would require an even bigger committement to bond closer and I don't know I can.
I sometimes think I need to go deeper but I know right now I can't do that alone, and with him I am not sure it will happen. And I speak about surface things.
Oh, yeah, Hi back at you. And congrats on the internship.
It is confusing I will just have to think about how to approach it.
thanks for your take on it.
rsk
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