Posted by Poet on April 12, 2008, at 15:52:09
In reply to depending on your T (kinda long), posted by CareBear04 on April 11, 2008, at 19:38:49
Hi Carebear,
For the most part my T has been there for me when I needed her. She says it's okay to depend on her and that she thinks our relationship is the first time that I have allowed myself some dependence (she got that one completely right.)
When I was majorly suicidal she called me everyday and yes, she threatened to call 911 on me, which still makes me mad, but I do understand that it would have been for my own good.
I've been seeing my T for 5 1/2 years and trusting her has taken a very long time. I still have silence during sessions, but stare at my shoes far less often. Though I do cross my arms and glare at her.
I think it sounds like you have a T that really does care about you and it's okay to let him.
Poet
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