Posted by sometimesblue on September 26, 2007, at 11:23:00 [reposted on September 27, 2007, at 1:04:42 | original URL]
In reply to Re: sexual question- wrong forum i think -so sorry, posted by polarbear206 on September 26, 2007, at 9:27:12
Not to offend, really, but have you ever considered that maybe you were sexually abused in the past? I know and have heard of many cases where if an individual who was sexually abused (in any sexual manner, not just rape) associate guilt with sex.
I'm female, and i have experienced the same thing as you, only being able to enjoy sex with someone i truly cared about...which has only been with my now husband. And even that was difficult at first.
I would definately suggest a therapist. Good luck to you i hope you find out what is causing your troubles. Or at the very least, how to cope.
Take care of yourself, especially with the cutting. I've been there myself, I know that pain.
-SometimesBlue
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