Posted by arora on September 24, 2007, at 7:38:12
In reply to Wondering if I was SA as a child ** CSA triggers**, posted by Happyflower3 on September 23, 2007, at 9:41:11
HF-
I don't know- memory is a funny thing... I have big gaps in my childhood memories, (other than feeling sad, and a vague sense of unease) so I can't really say. I have some of the 'symptoms' as well, which freaks me out too.I think that my family was just dysfunctional- trying to look like the all-round normal family but covering up a lot of unhappiness. Appearances and what other people thought was the most important thing.
Maybe we (or our parents) all become so conditioned into covering things up so that they can fit in with the norm, that they can't see what they're hiding might not have even been a big deal as far as others are concerned... but these little hidden things fester away until they really scr*w their children up.(sigh) that's what I hope, anyway.
arora
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