Posted by LadyBug on August 28, 2007, at 17:47:17
In reply to breach of self-ban - extreme distress **triggers**, posted by Dory on August 28, 2007, at 14:15:33
I feel your pain, I think I've been there myself, but my T wold talk to me and we'd have an agreement as to why she would respond to my calls or not. We agreed that it caused me too much anxiety when she doesn't respond so no matter what now, we respond to each other. It's hard to find what works sometimes. But your
T needs to realize that maybe this works for some people, it may not work for you. You need more in order to feel like your T is giving you consistancy. You need that connection in order to grow. I know I needed it and it took a long long time for me to get it.
I'm sorry you have so much pain, I know how hard it is. Tell you rT how much distress this is causing for you.
And your little bird story was so sad. I'm glad you shared it though. It gives me determination to work hard to overcome my injuries that I suffer from emotionally. Eventually we will all die and be out of pain. As was the little bird, no longer suffering. Maybe you gave it a few peaceful moments until the end.
LadyBug
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