Posted by TherapyGirl on August 23, 2007, at 19:04:17
In reply to Ya, and if anybody got something to point out to, posted by muffled on August 23, 2007, at 0:00:18
Okay, no pussy-footin', Muffled.
I think you are very close to figuring out a lot of things about your i-kids and your life and your childhood. And my gut feeling is that you got too close to that truth in therapy and it completely freaked you out. You feel burned by the fire of the knowledge. And so you have put all these roadblocks to therapy in place, I suspect because your i-kids are still trying to protect you. But they're kids and they don't always know the best way to protect adults. They did the best they could with what resources they had available when you were a child, but I'm thinking they are holding you back now with their fear. So if there is any way to share some of this with your T and keep working with her, little by little, I think you will figure a lot of things out.
I won't be mad if you think I'm totally off base or if this is too upsetting for you to consider. But you asked for frankness and I am usually nothing if not frank.
I've also said this before and I'll say it again -- I trust you to make the right decision for yourself and I'll support whatever decision you make.
((((((((((((Muffled)))))))))))))
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