Posted by JoniS on April 21, 2007, at 8:00:13
In reply to little daisy vs. Big Daisy » JoniS, posted by Daisym on April 20, 2007, at 23:12:14
Wow. Thanks for sharing that. I hope little daisy can get what she needs for continued healing!
Just a side note. I can swallow my tears and grow up quick too. - Survival instinct from childhood. And I can really keep the feelings down so deep, who knows whats in there! I bet that is a common trait among babblers.
OK I know he cares because - he constantly tells me "I'm not going anywhere" he makes himself available by phone even on vacations, etc and often tells me to call him if I need to. He has called me in between sessions a couple of times to check on me. He has emailed me 2 or 3 times just say hello and ask how I'm doing (although I dont think he wants me to go into a therapy session even though I want to) He is patient with me and he's genuine. He has, at times extended the session when he's concerned about how I am and doesn't want me to leave if I'm not "alright" And, last of all, when we've been working on me telling him how I feel about him, he asked if I want to know how he feels about me. (Of course I do!) He said that he cares deeply and profoundly about me. (I still couldn't tell him how I feel about him)
Isn't it crazy that even after all that, I still doubt and want to know that he cares?
I hope you have some similar experiences with your T.
Take Care
Joni
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