Posted by alexandra_k on September 13, 2006, at 9:04:29
In reply to Re: Taking a dump gotta loada crap in my head » llrrrpp, posted by llrrrpp on September 13, 2006, at 7:19:44
maybe...
you could talk to him about making a time... some time when you are settled in to the session and are kinda semi sorta relaxed... where he asks you specifically if there is anything in particular that you would like to talk about.
so there is a moment... if the timing is right... where you have the opportunity... to tell him what you have on your post it note.
and if you don't have anything then its okay you can keep joking and stuff. sometimes its good to joke when you are coming out of a depression. joking around can be a good way to feel more comfortable around each other too so that you feel better able to say what is on the post it note. but then sometimes... it can be counter-productive too.
sometimes... t's just mistime / misjudge things. maybe... he didn't think you had anything in particular to say. maybe... your nervousness about what you wanted to say came across as anxiety about seeing him more generally so he was trying to help you feel more comfortable. of course... i have no idea really.
but i know i've been to many sessions where what was on the post it note never got said.
because i didn't feel like there was an appropriate time.
so... if he doesn't want you to email him what is on the post it note he will just have to make time for you to say it :-p
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