Posted by susan47 on August 16, 2006, at 11:04:04
In reply to Re: Have a question about ethics reporting » muffled, posted by happyflower on August 16, 2006, at 8:23:34
I know these things can work. And what your therapist told you is true, it's an axiom, "Make sure the other guy has as much to lose as you do" that's another way of putting it, to be safe.
And it's true, I'm sure. Never been there, won't be there, wouldn't put myself there in a bazillion years unless it was equal. It has to be equal. I know people who do have these affairs, sometimes for years .. and it can work as long as you know what you're in it for, don't change that and keep looking ahead. Especially if the guy you're going to have the affair with is as hot to have it as you are. That's important too. Mmmmm. Lucky you. It's nice to feel hot and anticipatory. That's the best thing about it all, then you get to make out and go home. I mean what could be better? Personally, I wouldn't hesitate, not after living a bit longer.
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