Posted by B2chica on May 25, 2006, at 10:01:21
In reply to Re: My mother - Trigger maybe, posted by Racer on May 24, 2006, at 18:28:03
i must say this is a triggering thread for me. but racer i had to reply to your comments. what you said about how and why your mother would remember something someway reminds me of my mother...1)she would most likely remember that Nothing bad EVER happened to me growing up. that i made all that stuff up. 2)she likes to be the 'victim' and 3)also she has no boundries between me and her. if it's happened to me then it's happened to her and it wasn't that bad for her so i must be ok too. kinda stuff.
i've never talked to her about what happened when i was younger and i don't think i will ever be able to. she tries to consume me and the thought of that makes me want to explode. she really thinks she 'knows' me 100%, she thinks she even knows me better than my husband. it's as if i don't have a sense of self around her. and i want to pull my eyes out when she starts to act like this.
but i guess what i'm trying to say is i admire anyone who can approach their mother about their past. and still standing.
>>Hey, I didn't get crazy in a vacuum, you know...
ROTFLMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!
i about spit out my slimfast shake when i read this...So true...So true...
poster:B2chica
thread:647919
URL: http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/psycho/20060517/msgs/648329.html