Posted by All Done on May 24, 2006, at 16:17:07
In reply to Do you think it would be useful, posted by Dinah on May 24, 2006, at 15:24:18
(((Dinah))),
I'm sorry the deal on the house you love isn't going through. You didn't need anything that would make this harder than it already is. :(
I think you should ask your T what he would think about a joint session for the purpose of helping the two of you figure out the best way to make this decision. There are so many factors involved, it might help to have someone on the "outside" put some perspective on how to prioritize everything. The only problem I see is that your T may have too much invested in your decision, financially and emotionally. Even if he agrees to keep that out of the room, it's still a fact, you know? And keeping his stuff out of the room hasn't been easy for him lately, either. Then again, your T probably has the best perspective on how this will affect you.
Are there any groups helping with relocation out of your area since Katrina? Maybe they can refer you to someone?
I wish this was all decided and done for you.
Let me know if there's anything at all I can do to help.
Hugs,
Laurie
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