Posted by Daisym on May 23, 2006, at 23:25:53
In reply to Re: Younger parts and pieces - trigger » Daisym, posted by antigua on May 23, 2006, at 8:17:46
I'm so jealous that you have been able to talk openly with your mother about the csa. I don't know all the reasons why, but I think the primary one is that you no longer have to hide such a big part of yourself. Hiding this is exhausting. I think I already know that the csa HAS to be dealt with and that is partly what group is about. I'm having a tough time with the angry stuff, you are better at that than I am.
I was barely started in therapy when my oldest graduated high school, and it did indeed activate so much abandonment stuff, so much loss and so much envy about his choices. Prepare yourself for some more of the same when he actually leaves, that was hard too. Your therapist is good, she'll help you through it. We will too.
I think I'd like to sit on your deck as much as I would like sitting in my closet. Maybe we could all meet there? I'll bring cookies.
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