Posted by madeline on April 29, 2006, at 16:43:42
In reply to Re: To Starloree (got long), posted by starloree on April 29, 2006, at 13:47:13
Also, if I made you feel criticized, please know that that was not my intention at all. Heavens no!
I'm glad you brought the issue up and gave me an opportunity to apologize.
Which I surely do.
I also hope that you bring up the issue with your therapist, that what he said you felt was inapropriate and made you feel somewhat slighted.
He needs to know. He should correct his behavior - I mean not validate everything you say, but recognize that you were hurt by his words.
I let my therapist have it everytime he does something like that, which is all the time. If it's really bad I will write him long, scathing letters in which I point out everything he has ever done wrong EVER! Then I write him long, detailed apologies about how he was right and how I was just jumping to conclusions.
Now that I think about it, my therapist is a saint.
Maybe you should give your therapist a chance to be one too.
That's all I was saying.
Maddie
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