Posted by Dinah on April 29, 2006, at 9:14:55
In reply to Dinah, posted by All Done on April 29, 2006, at 2:30:24
Thanks, Laurie, for thinking of me.
I did indeed think the worst. We ended up going on a fact finding search this weekend and I called him to tell him not to bother calling me (since I had no privacy) and couldn't get his machine. I was positive he was blocking my calls! :)
He called back just as I was trying to walk out the door with the reasons he hadn't returned my call (he was busy, etc.), told me of course he wasn't angry with me, but that he really "wanted very much to tell me that he couldn't deal with" my bringing up things from long ago (last few months) in connection with his not calling me and didn't want to be responsible one way or another for any decision we made. And I didn't really have time to explain how that couldn't possibly be true, whatever his desires. He also added some of the stressful events he was dealing with to explain I guess why he couldn't deal with me on top of everything else. I really feel for him, honestly.
It may have upset me last week that he felt he "couldn't deal with" me, but I'm well on my way to indifference thanks to Risperdal. As long as I stay on that, I should be able to get through nicely until I see him Tuesday. Especially since we're out of town and investigating the new place. I think he works for my husband's company tho, because they really want him to move, and he's really making it easy for me to decide to make an offer on a house if we like this place at all. Or maybe even if we don't. :)
Dinah
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