Posted by All Done on December 27, 2005, at 14:07:45
But I really thought the more I talk to my T about my feelings for him (regardless of whether they are positive or negative), they would lessen over time. So, I swear almost every week, I talk to him about my attachment. Not even just basic stuff either. I go into a lot of detail about the pain I feel because I miss him. I tell him about my longings, wishes, dreams...whatever I feel or think about him. Months - maybe even longer - of this and it only seems to be intensifying (he knows that, too). I don’t know how much more I can handle. It hurts too much. But what a catch-22 it is, you know? I’m so attached I can hardly leave him, now.
How and when will it get any easier? Even just a little bit would be helpful.
poster:All Done
thread:592469
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