Posted by fallsfall on December 17, 2005, at 8:20:47
In reply to Re: help/in love with my Therapist, posted by bird in the sky on December 17, 2005, at 0:45:46
It is a problem if your feelings for your therapist prevent you from talking about things that you need to talk about. I would encourage you to let him know that there are things that you don't feel comfortable discussing.
Your therapist is NOT your boyfriend (it sounds like he does have appropriate boundaries) - though he may let you learn what relationships CAN be like. So the relationship with him can be beneficial because it is a learning tool that you can then generalize to other relationships in your life. This is how being in love with your therapist can help you heal.
I would encourage you to talk about how your feelings for him make it hard to talk about your husband.
Good luck!
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