Posted by fairywings on November 5, 2005, at 23:10:22
In reply to Re: I don't know » fairywings, posted by messadivoce on November 5, 2005, at 17:02:13
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> My dad and I get along okay now, and he's actually become quite a bit more considerate and kind to me. I think he's afraid of something going wrong in me again. But nothing can fix everything I missed. I think I'm still grieving for that little girl/daddy relationship that I missed out on.No, you're right, you can't go back and change the damage that's been done, and I know what you mean about grieving for what you missed out on.
That hurt just doesn't seem to go away.> Yeah, I can relate to this. There are times when fiance just holds me, and it feels soooo good. I know he has helped fulfill that need for male closeness. But of course there is a sexualized element to our relationship which is pretty normal for a couple soon to be married, and so the horniness often takes precedence over the cuddly stuff, sometimes. (We have decided to wait on sex til we're married, which has been reallyreally hard, but I know it will pay off. As a result, we're basically horny all the time.)
When's the wedding? That honeymoon will be wonderful, the closeness and love, it's like nothing else. It IS so wonderful when they just hold you and you feel the love pouring out for you. It does help so much to heal your soul to have a wonderful man love you unconditionally. And, to give you some encouragement on the state of a happy marriage, my husband and I have 4 kids, have been married almost 20 years, and we're STILL horny for each other all the time! And we're very much in love.
Here's to your wedded bliss! Cheers!
fw
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