Posted by happyflower on November 4, 2005, at 18:46:20
he saw you when you didn't see him. He told me he saw me coming into the gym on last Sunday as he was going to the locker rooms. I didn't see him, I didn't know he went on the weekends.
Then another time he saw me he said I groaned. Maybe this it the time I didn't want to see him last week. But I don't groan and I told him so. I told him he was projecting onto me because he also thought oh, great I just made her morning. LOL Why would my T tell me all this durning our last session? It is kinda of funny.
Then he also told me that while he was jogging around the track , a song came on by one of his favorite bands, which we discussed a lot about, and I gave him info on how to order a CD of them. He thought it was quite a coincedence that the song was playing while we were both there. It is funny for him to point this out, because there has been so many of these coincedences between us, but this time he said it, it wasn't just me thinking it. Any thoughts?
We had a good session , talked about religion, and I swear he is the only person who thinks the same way as me about this. I found out we are the same religion.
We talked about sexual thoughts, affairs, and he wanted to know if the guy I was talking to at the gym was someone I was thinking about having an affair with. Then I talked about another workout buddy of mine, and it turns out that he knows him and his wife. His wife used to work with my T, and he wanted to know if I wanted to have an affair with this guy because I was flirting with him at the gym. I said no I am not attracted to them in this way. Then he asked if this fellow musican somebody I am thinking about. NO< NO !
I am only fantazing on what an affair would be like, I don't think I would follow through with it though. Our session bled into his lunch hour about 20 minutes, 30 minutes past my appointment . He really wasn't watching the clock like he normally does, and he seems surprised he went over. We were having a good time talking. We have so much in common it is pleasant to talk to him.
He told me whatever my future holds, he hopes I continue to keep playing in the bands, he said it has such a postive effect on me. It was like he was telling me that it is what I am meant to do. Well I guess I should be quiet for now, I just want to know your reactions to my session. Thanks! :)
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