Posted by Jazzed on June 14, 2005, at 22:09:52
In reply to Re: feeling totally frusterated!, posted by happyflower on June 13, 2005, at 22:17:51
>I think maybe my T is getting to get me to FEEL SOMETHINGI'd ask him about that. I guess it seems a reasonable thing to do considering he wants you to be able to feel.\
>( and I am not talking about what you are thinking about! lol)
Hmmmmmm, seems to ME you WERE thinking about it!!! LOL Bad girl Happy, bad girl! LOL
>I am glad he was honest with me because I am TOO critical and it turns people away. But I also said the reason I was being blunt with him was because I was feeling too close to him, and it scares me. I do need to work on this, but it did hurt a little because I want to be a good little client. :)
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If you can't be yourself with him, where CAN you feel safe being you? Yeah, you might need to work on it, but it seems to me you need to work on it IN therapy with him fully present and supportive.You go get him now girlfriend! LOL
Jazzy
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