Posted by mandinka on October 26, 2004, at 1:57:49
In reply to Worried about T1's Boundaries, posted by alexandra_k on October 25, 2004, at 22:45:56
Here's the question: Is your T1 a rescuer? That would not be good. Why does she shower you with attention like that? I don't mind a T that cares but the question is WHY does she care? Is she fulfilling her own needs? Have you fallen into her blind spot? Before you decide what to do maybe you should talk to her about your doubts, alexandra. I sincerely hope you'll find a rock-steady T. :)
BTW, I don't think it's a good idea to keep T2 in the dark about T1 and I wonder why T1 doesn't mind you doing that. Hmmm...
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