Posted by Dinah on September 9, 2004, at 17:36:58
In reply to Re: urgent situation, posted by alexandra_k on September 9, 2004, at 17:31:29
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> After a time he may well start to take on a 'life of his own' and that may cause you significant distress if he develops goals and beliefs that are too radically divergent from yours (which is what tends to happen as you segment parts of yourself off to him that you cannot cope with).You are the first person I've ever heard express the idea that I struggle so much with!! I can't tell you how much it means to me to feel like someone gets it! I almost feel poleaxed, but in a good way.
poster:Dinah
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