Posted by crushedout on April 29, 2004, at 8:45:04
In reply to Is the attraction mutual?, posted by BigFish on April 13, 2004, at 17:30:22
Hi. I'm jumping in very late and I have to admit I haven't read this whole thread yet.
I got the feeling for awhile that the attraction to my T might be mutual, from her flirting, from stuff she said. When I finally brought up that I was wondering about it, she admitted to me that it was.
I'm not sure if that was a good idea. It's been hard for me. It's very frustrating and tantalizing, and I think it may also inhibit me from talking openly about some stuff, but on the other hand, I respected her honesty, and since I was already aware of it, it was validating for me to hear it. I was also so happy at the time to know it, although I think I actually got depressed afterwards. Sounds paradoxical/illogical, I know. How can you be happy and depressed at the same time.
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