Posted by fallsfall on March 19, 2004, at 17:11:38
In reply to Re: A little better » fallsfall, posted by Dinah on March 19, 2004, at 16:05:34
I like your terror and anger theory. That makes sense to me.
>So maybe your therapist isn't all wrong, and neither are you. And maybe he isn't all knowing, and maybe you don't need him to be. Maybe he even screws up royally sometimes (don't we all?) and maybe that's ok.
I can believe that he isn't all wrong. I can believe that I'm not all wrong. I can believe that he isn't all knowing. Then I get into trouble. I DO need him to be all knowing. I can accept that he might screw up royally sometimes, but his screwing up ISN'T OK (It isn't OK for me to screw up, either - other people may be able to screw up, but not me and not him).
Sigh.
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