Posted by tabitha on December 14, 2003, at 17:00:33
In reply to Re: Chuckle... » tabitha, posted by crushedout on December 14, 2003, at 15:44:54
yes, it was very validating. I was thinking, wow, you mean it's OK to actually feel sad about what happened? It was like she was showing me the appropriate response, sort of corrective emotional mirroring, like parents are supposed to do for small children. All I could feel about the memory was shame, and shame on top of that for not being over it already.
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