Posted by finelinebob on August 24, 2006, at 21:05:51
In reply to Re: Why am I weeping? Finelinebob, and others » finelinebob, posted by llrrrpp on August 24, 2006, at 18:23:38
> Am I afraid of losing husband because I'm not *good enough* to get another great guy?
You already got one. Not that you'd want to, but that's proof enough that you could.
> Am I afraid of losing husband because I'm not sure that I'm lovable? That he's smart enough to see through me and notice what a rotten person I am.
I'm sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but your husband apparently isn't THAT smart. Don't give him too much credit -- that'll just make him impossible to live with. ;^)
> Am I afraid of losing husband because I love him so much, and this is what healthy love feels like?
I can't speak from experience on this particular topic, but healthy people have insecurities. I think they accept the securities they receive more than the insecurities they invent, tho.
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