Posted by Racer on July 26, 2006, at 14:49:59
In reply to Re: A local minima? » Racer, posted by Declan on July 26, 2006, at 14:40:01
I found a lot of help in the ED group I went to. I could say things like, "It feels as though there's a How-To Manual that everyone else got, and I didn't..." Instead of a lot of blank looks and silence, before everyone went on to a different topic, I'd have half the group saying things like, "Yeah, that's what it's like for me!" or "That's such a good way of describing it -- I just don't know how everyone learnt..."
Maybe something like that would help you?
Or just come over here, and we'll head out for dinner. I promise to laugh at silly things, and not get impatient with you. How's that sound?
There -- that really is an idea: only socialize with people as messed up as we are! It's not a good idea, but it is an idea...
I dunno, Dec, today ain't a great day, so I'll shut up now...
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