Posted by alexandra_k on August 30, 2018, at 23:24:34
In reply to Re: alexandra » ert, posted by alexandra_k on August 30, 2018, at 23:14:06
> > You blame tourists, politicians, even cities and more for the sake of your unstable and erratic inner self
I have learned to ask the question: If I believe that: Who profits?
Other people profit for my internalising the blame. It makes me weak and powerless. It makes me feel whiney and feel self-pity. It makes me want to curl up in bed and hide and mope.
But I feel like my eyes have been opened. To who profits from my feeling that way? And that helps me feel more resiliant with respect to people doing what they can to induce those feelings in me.
If I am unstable and erratic (and nobody has called me that for a long time) it's normal behavior for the settings I've found myself in. That's how come other people have been determined to keep themself out of those settings and for them to keep some other poor sucker in those settings.
I don't have to join them... But I do have to see what it is that many people are up to... So I am resilant towards them, yeah. I don't have to play those games... But I do have to realise those are the games that many people are playing so that I don't get suckered in.
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