Posted by benzobill on January 17, 2011, at 5:07:58
Hi there, I've been trying my best to stay away from PB, but sometimes I like to lurk just to read your posts.
I have officially given up on Phillipa. I made the CHOICE that I don't need her to acknowledge what she done to break free of PB. I sent her one last Babble. I told I would not be contacting her again. I was a bit mean this time and I feel bad about myself Back in November when I had the OD, I worked with the Psyhologist and a Psychiatrist. They let me use their computers to show them all the Babbles Phillipa has sent me over the years. I talked about her behaviour and how it effected me. Then they took the time to explore PB themselves for a few days. Meanwhile my own psychiatrist came to see me in the hospital and he did the same thing. So 2 psychiatrists and 1 psychologist poured over Phillipa's stuff and followed her posts on PB. All three of gave her the same diagnosis .... sociopath. I know it's not fair to diagnosed someone without talking to them but we worked with what we had. They said that she will never be able to acknowlege what she did because in her mind she did nothing wrong. They also said that she will continue this behaviour forever.
So there you have it. I feel sorry for her in a lot of ways. She is estranged from her children and her husband treats her like sh*t. No one deserves that kind of treatment.
I hope she gets the help she needs and maybe one day be a better person because of it.
Take care and keep posting. :)
now this is a woman of true feelings after all she has been through she still feels sorry for her tormenter.
manic666
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