Posted by alexandra_k on August 17, 2009, at 22:40:44
In reply to Re: make change, posted by alexandra_k on August 17, 2009, at 22:35:36
And people have tried to talk to him reasonably about this. Over and over and over and over. And he just turns things around answering questions with questions until people get frustrated... And then some others get scared that those who are pressing him will... Kill him or something so they start to get antsy and then things are escalating... And then a blocking (by popular demand). And round and round things go...
And nothing changes.
At the very least: Don't claim affiliations when you are not bound by their codes of conduct.
And: Appreciate that your civility determinations are very idiosyncratic (not much inter-rater reliability in what you consider a blockable for a year offense - not without CONSIDERABLE training at any rate - and the majority of other psychiatrists would not agree).
So: Block people for up to one year (plenty of evidence that that is harmful) for idiosyncratic reasons under the name of 'civility'. If you think that is okay... I really don't know what the hell is supposed to justify that...
But that does seem to be what (in fact) you are doing.
If that is The Way Things Are then fine. But at least be honest about that fact.
And be honest about the fact that this simply isn't negotiable. Don't pretend to give a sh*t what we think when you so obviously don't and when you so obviously aren't prepared to look at what actually is best for this site (as opposed to 'for you') at all.
poster:alexandra_k
thread:904398
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