Posted by confuzyq on August 16, 2007, at 16:25:29
In reply to Re: Accomplished the Goal, posted by Fivefires on August 16, 2007, at 11:05:27
5f, have you read the entire thread, back from where it started on the Psych board? Thought maybe you didn't since at one point you said you hadn't seen any PBC to you (did see it later); and in a recent post you didn't realize Phillipa had been blocked just a couple posts above.
Anyway if you haven't read the whole thing yet, doing so might shed more light for you on the things you are wondering about regarding the reactions, handling, etc. of this matter. (Re the thread not getting anywhere, myself I think it did. Altho of course strong emotions remain.)
On the other hand, you said that the "arguing" was making you feel ill, so you may very understandably not want to read the whole thread going back to Psych and carrying over here. But we all know the classic answer to that, don't read any of it if it is upsetting you. The main parties in this may also be able to begin healing better without the additional weight of others becoming upset because of it too, unless as voluntary participants they've accepted the fact that they are taking responsibility for that themselves, because it's worth it to them.
> > No I did not disclose any info. At the time I forgot gg wasn't acting as a deputy anymore and thought I must do what she asked. Hence the post.>
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> What exactly did you feel you were being asked to do by one whom you thought was a deputy? Can you explain in more detail? Maybe you feel you can't? How are you feeling? RU feeling like exiting stage-left off babble and never coming back? All this arguing is personally making me very ill.
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> >Again I'm sorry for any fear you may have and don't know what else I can do.>
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> You've apologized. You're giving babblers an opening here to respond. But, I feel like everyone's 'digging around trying to understand this discombobulated situation'.
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> But Phillipa, can you explain it any other way than you already have? Is it wearing on you? I say because I feel you keep saying the same thing over and over, and I'm wondering if you feel we don't believe you? Aren't you just exhausted? If you've said all there is to say, that's all you can do, and you've apologized as well.
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> Phillipa, you are always here (Maybe you miss a few days a month!?), probably post more than anyone, never leave anyone lonely, come up w/ clever connections in threads, and manage to be all over the site everyday. Do you think maybe you began to feel 'more like a part of the crew than the cast'? (Do I have that backwards?)
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> If I were in your place, I might very likely come to feel some responsibilities which truely weren't my responsibility here.
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> Do you think maybe this happened?
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> Any suggestions? Phillipa>
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> Contact administrators.
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> No, really. (You've already done so haven't you?)
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> Just a few days ago, I learned from a deputy, I cannot speak to them about another babbler. I wanted to tell one of them of a babbler who seemed in trouble and share that maybe someone could respond. I was told, "I cannot speak about any babbler with any other babbler. Use the *contact administrators* option to do this."
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> Can you do anymore than you're doing right now Phillipa? Hang in here. Hopefully, we'll hear from a deputy or Dr. Bob.
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> I still like the whole 'hemolele' idea myself. We're just humans un-beings afterall; okay I'll speak for myself.
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> Please deputies, or Dr. Bob, if there is something all of babble need not know, just say so, or vice versa.
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> I don't feel this is fair to the babble community. We can't take care of ourselves all by ourselves; okay I'll speak for myself again.
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> I'd like Oz to return when comfortable and we can just all get along.(?) Sorry Oz. I wasn't mad AT you & way DON'T dislike you. I think I felt a little taken aback at a side of you I wasn't familiar with. You are always the one w/ the off-the-wall jokes I only wish I could tell as well. Come back funny one.
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> W/o some intervention, this is going nowhere.
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> I've been typing this for hours now. You're prob' all gonna' skip it becuz' you've already resolved this whole discombobulated issue(s)! :(
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> 5f
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