Posted by Fivefires on August 12, 2007, at 13:29:15 [reposted on August 12, 2007, at 17:47:25 | original URL]
In reply to Re: I cannot post here ever again » Phillipa, posted by OzLand on August 11, 2007, at 13:07:02
Ozland, I read Phillipa's response to your post and I don't feel there was any intention to hurt you. Instead, I feel her intention was to give you her attention and, hence, comfort.
I haven't paid as much attention to you, or everyone, for that matter, as I should. I'm unfortunately selfish.
Neither of you have this nasty trait.
Who would you rather have in your corner, someone like me who's here and gone, or someone like Phillipa who you can always count on?
Some here have become so close over the years, we forget we're visible to the world.
You and she spend more time here than I, but even I can picture 'all of us sitting around a picnic table and gabbing'.
You're really going through a lot, I realized, as you shared account of Tvisit.
Saying the email from Phillipa is so upsetting was, I understand, your first response, but,
Did you intentionally mean to hurt her? I feel there's 'an attack' in your statement. There wasn't one in her post.
There wasn't a problem very acutely visible to others until you reacted.
So, I'm wondering, did you 'unintentionally attack her post'?
It just doesn't seem 'at all like you' to do so intentionally.
I'm just saddened to see two people who care so much about others, and I know care about each other, at odds.
I've not yet read Phillipa's response to your response here, but, at this point, I say, ask for forgiveness in the way you believe, forget about it, and move on.
You may deserve to be and feel angry, but afa I understand, we're not allowed to attack one another here. Or, rather, 'we shouldn't anyway'.
I just feel if you had it to do over, you would have posted differently or used the babble feature.
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