Posted by 10derHeart on March 27, 2005, at 19:57:03
In reply to Re: Lou's response to alexandra_k's post -bgchescomp » Lou Pilder, posted by alexandra_k on March 27, 2005, at 18:42:23
Lou, et al,
I was referring to Dr. Bob.
I do use that expression, as well as others as mentioned above by Dinah, as acknowledgements that someone is in charge, the boss, the top person to decide things, etc. I've never thought about whether it's exactly a "compliment," but considering the opposite might be "insult," then it certainly is one.
And Toph, you (sort of) joke, but I do hang around a lot with a dear friend from Wisconsin, and I think she tends to say this a lot....
Also, being teasing and a bit of a "silly" expression, (i.e., comparing a person to a food) it is affectionate. I don't think I tease people I don't feel some level of affection or respect for - that could tend to turn mean.
My intention was not to be mocking or sarcastic (thanks, alex) in any, way, shape or form. I hope the day does not come where I address Dr. Bob, or anyone else, in a negative tone on these boards. But, since I'm far from perfect, if I do so, I'm comforted to know the way we "police" each other, someone would let me know. (That was NOT sarcasm - I sincerely appreciate the civility guidelines.)
I was trying to gently help two other posters, by reminding them their own gentle teasing could be misunderstood.
Lou, I'm sorry if I was confusing, vague or anything by choosing that expression.
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