Posted by kmm on February 20, 2006, at 10:16:49
In reply to Re: Anyone had success on Effexor XR?, posted by TinMan on February 20, 2006, at 9:33:40
Hi Damian,
I can really sympathize with your need to keep your problem under wraps however, by attempting to hide your depression you are certainly adding more stress to your system at a time when it absolutely does not need another problem. In addition, I can almost guarantee that your spouse, and possibly your chidren, depending on their ages, can sense that something isn't right with you already. Honesty is always the best policy. As someone who has walked in your shoes, I was surprised at the support that I got from most family members when I shared my situation - including stories of similar struggles. Also, I will be proud to tell my children, when they are older, that I struggled with depression and sought treatment. No one goes through life without battles and wouldn't you like to show your kids that you are an excellent problem solver?
Another thing to consider is that when you are depressed, your decision making skills are usually very diminished. I had to trust my spouse on this one, many times, when I was very unwell.
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