Posted by Phillipa on April 1, 2005, at 13:11:09
In reply to Re: A violent relationship... are medications causing?, posted by Justy on April 1, 2005, at 11:52:17
It's very hard to look at things objectively when you are emotionally involved with someone. Especially if you love him. I get the impession that you are both young. I would never stay with a man who is abusive. I know your intellectual side is telling you this but the emotions? He also sounds like he has a problem with alchohol. I say this as I was married to one, and always manage to pick the same kind of men. Lucky for me my husband now, and I gave up alchol 8 years ago, and even though life is not as much "fun" now as it was then it's for the best. I've seen him especially "grow" since quitting. I don't think you can speak with his pdoc without his permission what with all the privacy laws. You of course, could call and just relay the person's name and what is going on and that you are concerned. Maybe the doctor will get the message and act on it accordingly. Most of all as the others have said your safety is number one even if it "hurts" to ge alone. Fondly, Phillipa
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