Posted by sjb on February 10, 2005, at 7:56:11
In reply to Re: alcohol and meds, posted by just so sad on February 7, 2005, at 23:22:40
banga and just so sad,
Thank you for your advice and just so sad, I hope you get a handle on your depression. Fred, I know there is dispute on whether alcoholism is a disease or not. I sure don't have an answer or even an inkling but for me, I know I must stop. There is also some folks who think "rational" recovery" is the answer, which I believe is drinking in moderation. My thought is, hey, if that works for folks, great, I just have to accept that all my previous attempts at drinking in moderation escalated very quickly. Whether that's a weakness on my part or a disease, I haven't a clue, but I feel I'm strong in other areas that moderate drinkers may not be, so I do not want to use my "lack of willpower" to add to my shame and guilt.
As for AA, I won't be upset if my therapist recomends it, I've already printed out a list of meetings in my area. Yeah, I know, it takes more than printing out a list and just saying, "Hmmm, well these times aren't great for me. . . .", but I never would have taken that step before. I know I have a problem now.
Best wishes to all and banga, I so admire your strength and abstinence and your willing to look at your past without excuses, denial, etc.
As for my husband, I appreciate the advice but am not willing to share with him at this time. I will confide in someone, however.
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